On Fellowship
To wrap up, we’re highlighting the purpose of leveraging a sense of renewal, of centering community and connection, and offering opportunities in which young people, their parents/caregivers, and their networks of support (including program staff!) experience belonging.
Many of our programs are just like at a dinner table – everyone brings their appetite and preferences. The best meals are a magical combination of good food, side conversations, small talk, meeting new people, and maybe a lengthy sobremesa to talk over a light dessert and a warm drink.
Centering belonging requires everyone’s unique contributions. Belonging is a feeling, yet our programs often face pressures that distract from the relationship building needed to explore, understand, and support what our program communities need to feel seen, heard, respected, and connected. Even more, our communities are multifaceted, and, as a community of communities, we are still working to co-create environments where differences lead to connection instead of disconnection.
- Difference and belonging might seem to be distant concepts. Differences are present in the multiple ways of thinking, feeling, believing, and valuing in your community. Belonging comes from experiencing meaningful relationships within the environments we navigate.
- What bridges difference and belonging? Opportunities to build relationships among people with shared interests, goals, and passions are the bridge. In other words, fellowship. Fellowship does not contradict difference. Quite the opposite, fellowship allows communities to tap into the richness brought by differences and the protective/enabling potential of belonging.
Reflect
Look at the work that is ahead—the next month, quarter, or year. Your programs most likely include a rich menu of offerings. Take 15 minutes this week to write out your responses to the following prompts.
- Who are the different members of your program community that will be engaged in program activities? From your interactions with them, would you say they feel like they belong in your program community? How do you know?
- How will you prioritize opportunities for your program community to connect back to itself?
- How is your program prepared to welcome a richness of colors, spices, appetites, and flavors? If the program does not feel prepared, what actions are needed to be better prepared?
Let's Connect
Thank you for coming along with us for this series on Cultivating Fellowship and Vision in Youth Services. Our team is available to work alongside you and your team as you continue to identify and provide rich opportunities to support youth and young adults, their parents/caregivers, and their networks of support.
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